你已经20多岁了,真的不要再做这些事情了

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点进来的小伙伴估计都是20岁左右吧?你是在读大学呢还是已经毕业了?
 
是的,我们还很年轻,我们在慢慢变得成熟,我们也在争取一个更好的生活。 
 
可是好的生活需要好的习惯,so, “10 stops”for you right now.

1

Stop buying cheap clothes  

不要再追求便宜

As a teenager and young adult, it’s fine to buy clothes and only wear them a few times, changing them as fashion dictates. However, now you’re older and probably settling into your first serious job, it’s time to start taking style more seriously. Invest in a few key pieces rather than buying a new wardrobe every few weeks. 


2

Stop dating unsuitable ones  

尽快甩开不适合你的那个人


找到一个适合你的人真的很难,但是现在你已经20多了,应该想想自己到底要找一个什么样的另一半。不要再在那些你明知道根本不适合你的人身上浪费时间。你需要在现实和不愿意给人机会之间寻找一个平衡点。 

3

Stop caring what other people think

不要太过在意别人


在意别人怎样看自己其实是人类的天性,没有人喜欢别人在背后议论或指责自己。但是,过于在意别人的看法,活在别人的想法中,有时不仅会失眠,甚至还会让你抛弃自己珍贵的梦想和目标。

4

Stop blaming your parents

不要责怪父母

Sure, no-one’s parents are perfect and yours probably made their fair share of mistakes. However, it’s too easy to fall into the trap of blaming your parents. This isn’t productive, and will sour familial relationships. 


5

Stop holding onto old hopes and dreams

放弃一些实现不了的希望和梦想

Are you guilty of holding onto aspirations that you really would be best off releasing? It may be time to trade in your old goals and ambitions for newer, more realistic aims. This doesn’t mean you have to give up on your vision of an ideal life, just that you need to keep your aspirations realistic. 

6

Stop living in denial about your finances. 

不要再回避财政问题

Those years when you could get away with being oblivious to the intricacies of your financial situation are over. It’s time to get responsible and set up a decent savings account, together with a pension plan if you haven’t got one already. 

7

Stop being too nice

不要一味做“好人”

Stop people-pleasing. By your age, you should have a good idea of what you are capable of, and where your limits are. Learning how to say ‘no’ is an important step on the road to maturity. 

8

Stop wasting so much time on the internet

克制上网

This is a tough one. These days, it seems as though everyone is addicted to the internet. We use it to find information, keep in touch with friends…and most of the time just browse social media unconsciously…wasting plenty of time. Learn to set time limits for yourself. You could even try one completely internet-free day per week. 

9

Stop taking your health and fitness for grant

关心自己的健康状况

Most of us can subject our bodies to late nights, too much alcohol and excessive junk food in college without feeling the after-effects. Unfortunately, as you move into your mid-twenties and then into your thirties, your body isn’t quite up to the task any more. Time to start eating more healthily and limiting those wild late nights! 


10

Stop being messy

学会收拾

How many hours have you lost looking for your wallet or keys? Make this the year you finally start getting your possessions in order. Nothing makes you feel more mature than knowing exactly where your stuff is. 

只有20多岁过得足够好,我们才不会恐惧30岁的到来,愿每个小伙伴都能活出自己想要的模样。


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